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Bola the issue is, it depends on the two pple coming into the marriage all the other factors mention also come into play t to make a good marriage.
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 submitted by Cecils 8-Oct-2009 |
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Bola it s like arranging a puzzel it will work base on the foundation both used in building the marriage.
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| submitted by belly 8-Oct-2009 |
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| I Believe it is sacrifice, commitment and the readiness to adjust for the good of your partner. Also teamwork as well as the husband being loving and the wife being submissive irrespective of the circumstance |
| submitted by BB. 8-Oct-2009 |
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Bola -
Please allow me to contribute my 2 cents to this issue. First off, marriage is an insitution that no one graduates from. What I can say about this issue is that marriage is like cooking soup like abenkwan or nkrakra or groundnut soup. Liek a marriage, each soup has its own characteristics. At times the soup may not be tasty and you may have to resolve the issue by either adding the appropiate ingredients to make it tasty. Marriage may at times go stale and it is up to the principal individuals involve to resolve to sweeten the relationship. Well I could go on and on, however allow me to get off my soapbox. Thnx for the opportunity to express my views!!!
By the way I am in the good old USA and I am listening to U over the NET!! gr8 show !! Keep Up the good work!! |
| submitted by Obonoma 8-Oct-2009 |
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| Bolas, I will like a strong, intelligent, honest but patient woman who will reason and argue over things with me. Aside this she must be beautiful enough to tickle my loins, she should be that person who will get me thinking of the pleasnt things awaiting my arrival at home. Bolas that is all i will expect from my future wife. |
| submitted by Felix 8-Oct-2009 |
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HI BOLA,
IT IS RESPECT, COMPROMISING, AND KNOW WHEN TO BACK OFF |
| submitted by Ama 8-Oct-2009 |
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| Bola, I thank God for the life of my wife, Eunice, ma sons, Elliot and ma newly born baby boy Ivan. I LOVE THEM ALL. |
| submitted by Theophilus (Adjaragano) 8-Oct-2009 |
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| Marriage does work when the couple understand each other and love each other. |
| submitted by BOLEX,EDMUND UK. 9-Oct-2009 |
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i believe marriage is one area that you just cannot tell how it should go till you get into it yourself.
but in my perspective i think faithfullness and transparency are very important in marriage, cause these two values are what contributes in building trust between spouses which is an essential thing. i will also add that when couples share things together, like going to church as a family, attending a friends wedding ceremony and those little things. but most times you realise that after marriage spouses tend to go their diff ways.
divorce on the other hand should very much be discouraged, cause in life nothing good comes easy |
| submitted by adwoa 9-Oct-2009 |
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| Hi Bola, I wana say hi to all my lover's inside T Nungua Estate expercially Andel Asare-Duah and her parent |
| submitted by Nana Quami 12-Oct-2009 |
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BOLAS, LIKE IN THE SHAKESPEARE CLASSIC 'HAMLET' I WILL SAY LEAVE HER TO THE PRICKS AND THORNS OF CONSCIENCE.
IF GOD FORGIVES YOUR INIQUITIES HE WILL TELL YOU THAT YOU WILL HAVE TO DANCE TO THE RYTHM OF NATURAL PRINCIPLES, AS IN THE CASE OF DAVID FROM THE BIBLE.SHE HAS COMMITED HER SINS, GOD HAS FORGIVEN HER SHE SHOULD GO AND DANCE TO THE RYTHM OF NATURAL PRINCIPLES IF SHE CHOOSES TO REVEAL IT.
SO THE BALL IS IN HER COURT SHE SHOULD KEEP IT.
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| submitted by Felix 12-Oct-2009 |
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Hmm? Bola Or yeh Asem O!!
This issue is a difficult one, however If the lady is born again, then she should not be afraid to tell her man about the issue. The husband should also do the right thing and NOT allow his anger to break up his family. There is a saying the the evil that 'men' do lives after them. Well this also applies to women. She is BORN again and should do the right thing >> U cannot hide away from your sins. It will always come to LIGHT. LIGHT allows us to see our failures and correct them. LIGHT is GOOD. GOD is LIGHT!!!
I am off my soapbox. |
| submitted by Obonoma 12-Oct-2009 |
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