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| That is not a great home. The wife is not happy and that can't be a great home. In any case the child is not for the man whether she says it or not. The God who she has found is the same God who will take care of the consequences. What about after confessing, the husband took it cool and is happy with it and tells nobody? She should confess. |
 submitted by Paul Kisseih (Osu-Accra) 12-Oct-2009 |
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| Your forgiveness by God does not depend on u confessing to ur husband. Time will clear ur conscience. Remain silent and save ur marriage and the agony of the little innocent kids. |
| submitted by Chiga 12-Oct-2009 |
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There is nothing hidden that will not be revealed. The longer this secret remains, the more deadly the consequences will become when it finally comes out. Some health situations with the child could reveal the truth. It happened in my extended family. Ayittey can come around later to claim his child.
Rose claims to be born again. How does she feel each time her husband introduces the child as his firstborn? How can she claim to love this innocent man and keep this from him? Love is not selfish. She cannot keep this wicked deceit in order to selfishly keep her marriage intact. |
| submitted by Ben, now in Cantonments 12-Oct-2009 |
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Hmm? Bola Or yeh Asem O!!
This issue is a difficult one, however If the lady is born again, then she should not be afraid to tell her man about the issue. The husband should also do the right thing and NOT allow his anger to break up his family. There is a saying the the evil that 'men' do lives after them. Well this also applies to women. She is BORN again and should do the right thing >> U cannot hide away from your sins. It will always come to LIGHT. LIGHT allows us to see our failures and correct them. This is purely between the man and his wife and they should not allow it go affect the child or children. LIGHT is GOOD. GOD is LIGHT!!!
I am off my soapbox. |
| submitted by Obonoma 12-Oct-2009 |
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Hey girl, tell him. No man is prefect. For all you know the Dude has kids somewhere else and you will be surprise how shock you will be and not him.
A friend had a one night stand with a girl, got her pregnant and decided to tell the wife, only for the wife to tell him she has 2 kids in Ghana.
Do not expect an angel from a human being.
Give him some good sex and tell him.... |
| submitted by Papa Freddoo... USA 12-Oct-2009 |
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| This is very serious matter because the child is another man's son, the dad is wild about the out come of his son in the wrong hands and needs careful attention. |
| submitted by BOLEX,EDMUND UK. 13-Oct-2009 |
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She has to confess to her husband and leave the rest to God. God controls every heart and if her husband truly loves her and a true beliver, he will surely let things go. I might take time, but time they say heal all wounds.
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| submitted by Sussan Sey (Airport Residential Area - Accra) 13-Oct-2009 |
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| Hello Rose, you will continue to be tormented until you speak the truth. I know you'have never been comfortable for the past ten years. Once God has called you for his purpose, he would also want you to fulfil his calling by being obedient to his word and doing his will. Please confess! It will make you a free person |
| submitted by Sedinam 13-Oct-2009 |
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| being born again is a renewal of the spirit and the soul.God is all forgiving but can we say same for man?she knows the husband better than any of us.if he is the type that forgives easily then why not,but if the case is the contrary then time will tell. |
| submitted by andrews okyere-Tema 13-Oct-2009 |
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| I Think She should Tell His Husband The Truth ,Be cos if she doesn't One day It will affect Her OK. |
| submitted by Don Cash 13-Oct-2009 |
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| i will just confess and be free . |
| submitted by naa 14-Oct-2009 |
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| well bola i think the rose should try confessing to her husband in front of a priest after which there will be renewal of marriage vows and if possible counselling |
| submitted by feloni 14-Oct-2009 |
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