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Scenario :: 23-Oct-2009


Trust, they say, is the foundation of any successful relationship. But in today’s relationships, people don’t seem to trust each other. You’ll find couples checking each others phones for calls and messages, asking their boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands or wives where they are, going through his or her letters or even their wardrobe to find if someone has bought them anything.

This Friday, I’d like to know if you would be okay if your partner went through your personal things. Do you mind when they go through your phone or your emails? Do you think it’s healthy for your relationship? Or do you think it’s a bad sign of distrust and insecurity?


 
 

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I Do it most of the time but she doesn't have the authority bcos I am the man
 submitted by  Philip-Emef Tema     23-Oct-2009
 
Hi Bola, there's nothing wrong with that, but i believe it is disrespect for your partner. respect for privacy is important in all relationships. it is simply a sign of insecurity. you will only get hurt, so why bother. it's a bad habit.
 submitted by  Suzy, Sakumono     23-Oct-2009
 
whats the big deal bolas i see nothing wrong with my girl friend going through my things on my phone . I love her and thats it.
love comes along with some of these things and it only goes a long way to prove our maturity.
 submitted by  felix     23-Oct-2009
 
HI Bola,

It is not okay for my husband to go through my personal things or vice vesa. I will be very upset if he check my email and phone calls. Relationship is all about trust. I don't pick my husband phone calls and he doesn't pick mine until I try him to do so.
 submitted by  Ama, USA     23-Oct-2009
 
Bola, its a big NO, and should not be encouraged.

cheers!!
 submitted by  Maame, Tema     23-Oct-2009
 
Why this, is breaking marriage and shd be stop.

G.WEEKEND
 submitted by  Ani - Tema     23-Oct-2009
 
Am happy this topic is been discussed.I believe it is good to create checks and balances at home especially in relatioship.i do not have a problem if my woman does that on a free motive.
 submitted by  christian Essilfie     23-Oct-2009
 
I will say no because it will bring misunderstanding between us.
 submitted by  BOLEX,EDMUND UK.     25-Oct-2009
 
hi bola rey, analysin this issue it talks abt when two ppl are in love and love can not be occurin between couples without trust, it is obvious that if u love a person then u have to care abt the persons feelis, therefore, l didn´t see the reason why l couldn´t go through mine lovers personalitis or she either . l love her she can go through all l had! thx
 submitted by  sadat in spain     30-Oct-2009