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Scenario :: 4-Nov-2009


Kelvin is a young successful lawyer with his own chambers and a happy family. He apparently spends almost all his time at work and at the courts and the only time he gets to spend with his family is on Sundays, though work does not permit him to do that all the time since he is always on the move. His wife Ewuraesi, vehemently complains of his absence at home and is threatening to file for divorce should he continue this way. Kelvin on the other hand sees nothing wrong with his attitude towards his family since he has provided them with all the luxuries in life and thinks his wife is ungrateful. Do you agree with Kelvin or you think his wife deserves to have quality time with the husband.

Against this background; ladies out there let us know - would you marry a man who gives you all the luxuries in life and creative comforts - though he will spend quality time with you when he has the time and men if you have a demanding job that needs and takes away your time a lot, would you trade it for family life?

 
 

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BOLA FORGET ABOUT HER WIFE WOMEN WANT TO COMPLAIN ABOUT EVERYTHING IN THIS WORLD IF U HAVE SEX WITH THEM ALWAYS THEY SAY ITS TOO MUCH IF U DONT DO IT U RE IN TROUBLE 98% OF WOMEN WILL LEAVE U IF U STAY IN THE HOUSE FOR ONE YEAR WITHOUT A JOB. WHAT OF IF THE HUSBAND IS TRAVELLED.
WOMEN WOMEN I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY ABOUT THEM.
 submitted by  SAMMY OF RIDGE     4-Nov-2009
 
This is sad but true of many marriages. EwuraEsi should find something that occupies her time. She should also concentrate on her job. I bet you if they divorce even 10 years down the line, her husband wont give her any of that money he has worked for. And despite how busy men are they find time to spend with girlfriends rather than their wives.
 submitted by  Marie     4-Nov-2009
 
I think that it is very important for a man to provide for his family but spending time with your family is equally important. I think he should find a way of balancing the two if the marriage means anything to him.
 submitted by  debe USA     4-Nov-2009
 
All who have accomplished great things have had a great aim, have fixed their gaze on a goal which was high, one which sometimes seemed impossible,so the guy should go on with work becous if he doent have money the wife u live him.
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 submitted by  ERIC PRINCE     4-Nov-2009
 
I am listening from Canada and I am sadened by the comments made by the male callers.

They seem to forget that they have a roll to play in the house. They are the head of the house. How is home (wife and kids)supposed to flourish when there is no leadership.

 submitted by  Lissa Ohene     4-Nov-2009
 
As for this,in my own way i will support the husband than to support the wife looking at the situation they are in this very matter.
 submitted by  BOLEX,EDMUND UK.     4-Nov-2009
 
bola please accept my col music with ur staffs for ur great work done. all thx to u guys and as for Ewuraesi she made me laugh in capital letters here thats women for u, if u make them to be on top of the world they must still lack smthg. in my enalysetion l think she has never said wht is ichin her
 submitted by  sadat frm spain     4-Nov-2009
 
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 submitted by  Isaac and Nayram Kyei-Mensah     5-Nov-2009
 
Bola first i want to know wther Kelvin was so busy like dat b4 he got his family if yes den i dot kno de prblm of his wife
 submitted by  Arnold adjei     5-Nov-2009
 
It really depends on what type of relationship the couple agreed to have when they originally got married. If they agreed that the husband would be the main financial support and that the wife was to stay at home, then that is the basis of their marriage. What they need to do next is discuss what it will take to keep the both of them happy. If the wife needs time with her husband so that she can be satisfied in their marriage, then the couple needs to work out an agreement to spend time with one another. If the husband wants to save his marriage, he needs to realize that though he's providing for his family financially, happiness isn't only about money.
 submitted by  Kristina (from California)     5-Nov-2009
 
Well the man shud try n restructure his work schedule. Women we all know crave for attention. Money can't buy love nor affection. When will the man want to spend time with his family? Is it when he is old and ageing? Remember that the reason why we men are hustling is to make a meaningful life for our family so man rethink.
 submitted by  Worchie Rich     6-Nov-2009
 
hmm!its hard to make a conclusive decision.but i think Kenvin should seat and agree with Ewuraesi to understand else divorce is inevitable. good luck Kelvin.
 submitted by  selassie     6-Nov-2009